Name Games

I recently had a conversation with someone about baby names. She theorized that everyone has a name they detest, based on it being the name of someone they dislike. I had to agree with her, as the instant she shared this theory, the name and image belonging to that name popped into my head.

What do you think?

When you consider this theory, does your mind’s eye come up with an image of someone in particular?

Or, conversely, when you think of a name that you absolutely love, does it conjure up an image of someone you admire?

Now, the reason we were discussing names in the first place is on account of the fact that our daughter is having a baby this summer. She and her fiance recently found out she’s having a boy. This will be our third grandchild (counting our soon-to-be son-in-law’s 5-year-old)

I’m so pleased that they have learned the baby’s gender, because that means there will not be a “gender reveal” party. I absolutely despise those. They are so stupid. I just don’t think gender matters so much. I mean, can’t we all just be happy that a new life is coming into the world?

The kids have been coming up with names now and it sounds like they are going to incorporate Mr. NOA’s middle name into it. I think that’s pretty sweet.

I wonder when this baby starts talking if he’ll call me “Grammy”. I had high hopes that our first grandson would call me that, but despite my best efforts, it never caught on. I recently saw an episode of my current favorite sitcom, “Abbott Elementary”, and one of the characters, upon learning she was going to become a grandma for the first time, christened herself “Glamma”. A person I know IRL who is about to become a grandma for the first time recently sported a sweater emblazoned with the name “Gigi” on it. I feel like “Grammy” suits me better though.

I need to get my butt in gear and plan a baby shower now. We have settled on a date for this gathering, which will be before baby is born (4th of July is the due date). It’s been a minute since I’ve planned a big-ish party, so wish me luck!

And I leave you with one of my very favorite name songs. I hope you enjoy!

6 thoughts on “Name Games”

  1. Congrats on the impending arrival of a 4th of July baby. That’s fun.

    You asked: When you consider this theory, does your mind’s eye come up with an image of someone in particular?

    Yes, I dislike the name Bruce because I knew a real jerk of a one once and it’s unfair to blame all of them, but the name rankles.

    Flip side I’ve known more wonderful Elizabeths, going by various nicknames, than I can count. Instantly love someone with that name.

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  2. Hey, congratulations! We’re only getting one grandchild, but thankfully he’s terrific. He’s turning ten months old next week, and we got to spend most of last week with him. (Not something you take for granted when our son, daughter-in-law, and grandson live 2,000 miles away.)

    When you’re a retired school teacher, names frequently conjure up some kind of feeling. I taught a lot of naughty red-haired Jasons over the years. 🤣

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    1. Awww…I know from experience how hard it is to live so far from your kids and grandkid. I am beyond grateful that we all live just a 20 minute drive away from each other. Isn’t it funny how that goes with names in our brains?

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