At The Moment

Is it starting to feel like summer where you live? Are the kids you know and love all graduated and working towards getting ready for their next chapter? Are you eagerly anticipating the next great summer pop song?

I’m cautiously optimistic about this new life that we, as a couple, are going to craft beginning this summer, in Wisconsin.

Hubs, our good boy Radar, and I will be hitting the road in less than 24 hours.

Towing this:

Our summer home!

But for this brief moment in time (aka me trying to remember that #thistooshallpass), things in these parts are super wonky.


There is a box of cleaning supplies sitting on top of Hubs’ office chair at this moment.

My dining room table is filled with a combination of disposable grocery bags filled with clothes that need to be put in our camper, 2 old computer monitors , recently found plastic easter eggs with jelly beans inside them (score!), and a parking ticket courtesy of the city of Denver (my bad-but hey I got it paid online just now!).

We cannot park our Tacoma in the garage any longer. It’s filled with stuff for the movers to put in their truck, stuff for the junkyard dogs to pick up, and whatnot.

But that’s the sucky part of moving, right? And it’s almost over.

Did you know that prairie dogs are plentiful in Colorado? Well, now you do!

Hubs and I will be celebrating our recent 32nd wedding anniversary on the road, as we make our way to our next (and final?) destination. To find our “forever” home, as they say. The home we will die in. Or maybe not actually physically die in. I will just say the odds are that it’ll be the house in which we reside when we take our final breaths.

Ok, that’s just dark. Sorry folks, my anxiety is showing.

Really, what Hubs and I will be doing on our cruise through the upper Midwest is a lot of talking. We collectively have some shit to process. Stuff to discuss. Ideas to share. Plans to make. Pages to get on.

But also: the two of us have this unfettered opportunity to cut loose and have some fun. Maybe try some new food and drink, discover new places to rest our heads at night, and just sort of savor the quiet.

I am trying to resist the temptation to segue into how I hope for things to turn out beyond this road trip. Once we’ve landed in small town Wisconsin and reunited with our family and old friends.

At the moment, however, I’m going to make the wise choice and live in the here and now. Give myself and Hubs the “present” of being plugged into our present.

Raise a glass with me, friends! Cheers to a happy, fun, and safe summer!

10 thoughts on “At The Moment”

  1. Oy, what a dream you’re living! Leaving it all behind and going out into the open road! Well, to your next destination! To new beginnings! This is exciting! (all the other nonsense moving tasks will eventually go away!) πŸ˜€ Happy Summer!!

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    1. We are on the road now! I’m sitting in the camper at a KOA (why can’t they call it a COA???) campground right now. Next stop, Minnesota! Our home state πŸ™‚

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  2. Have a safe and fun drive, my friend! As Buzz Lightyear would say. “To infinity and beyond!”⚑⚑⚑πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯πŸ’₯⚑⚑⚑⚑

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  3. I admire anybody who has the courage to pick up and go for it. I spent nine years of my childhood in the Dakotas, so I know a bit about cold winters. Funny, I should read this now. I was just in Denver and Aurora right before you moved. Best of luck to you and your husband on your new adventure, Rhonda. 36 years for my wife and at the beginning of August.

    1. Yes, once my Hubs realized he could successfully work from home (thanks to Covid or course), regardless of where “home” is, it was a no brainer to move back to Wisconsin. An early “Happy Anniversary” to you and your wife πŸ™‚

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